What does fatherhood look like when you are starting over in a new country?
In honour of Father’s Day, we’re sharing reflections from two fathers in the ISSofBC community.
For Caxton Ho, moving his family to a new country — twice in two years — was one of the hardest experiences he has lived through.
“There were days I felt completely overwhelmed just trying to keep us afloat,” Caxton shares. His message to other fathers and families going through the same journey is simple:
“Don’t try to carry this on your own. Your family is your anchor. Outside, everything may feel unfamiliar, but inside your home, as long as you are together, you already have something strong. But you also need support beyond that. Whether it’s a neighbour, another parent, or a team like ISSofBC, finding people who lift you up when things get tough is what turns a new country into a place you can truly call home.”
For Ricardo Lao, fatherhood is also about the values we practise every day.
“As a father of two, we teach through how we live — by modelling respect, diversity, and compassion at home. When children see us listening without judgment, welcoming differences, and making others feel they belong, they carry those values forward. And through them, we build stronger, more welcoming communities.”
To all fathers, father figures, and caregivers supporting their families through change, settlement, and new beginnings — thank you.
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